How To Take The Perfect First Kiss Photo credit to Andrea Eppolito Events

Top 4 Tips For A Perfect First Kiss Photo

Some say the best part of a wedding is the groom’s face when he sees his bride for the first time, others say it’s the smiling-through-tears father giving away his little girl; truth is, soon-to-be Mrs., there isn’t a single part of a wedding ceremony that is more beautiful than the next!

Be it a sandy beach or a traditional chapel, from your first step down that aisle to the final smile as you say “I do”, weddings stand tall as an inspiration for all who have begun to doubt love’s presence in the world, and it’s only suiting that such a day be capped off with a “awww”-worthy first kiss!

Question of the hour, bride-to-be: How does one pull off a first kiss without seeing this face?

Your first kiss as husband and wife confirms your vows and seals the deal…here’s a couple of hints to take the perfect photo during that beautiful moment!

  • -  When the minister says, “You may now kiss the bride”, don’t look at anyone but your groom
  • -  Smile and lean in for the initial contact
  • -  Give your photographer (and guests!) more than just a split-second peck to swoon over (studies show that roughly 4 seconds is average and just right)
  • -  Smile while slowly pulling away and keep your eyes fixed on your groom while you’re announced to your guests as man and wife

Of course, though I doubt it needs said, try not to be too obvious with any amount of tongue involved…Grandma doesn’t need to see that!

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Caring for Fresh Wedding Flowers Anemones credit to Sweet Pea Flowers of Colorado

Caring For Fresh Wedding Flowers: Anemones

White anemones are the prize in many wedding flower arrangements, bridal bouquets, and table centerpieces! While purchasing fresh anemones to create your own DIY wedding flower arrangements is a perfect way to both maximize your wedding flower budget and bring a personal touch to your wedding decor, you want to be sure to give your anemones the proper care and attention so that they will be fresh and beautiful throughout your ceremony and reception.

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Christie O. at MountainSide Bride (previously known as Hindsight Bride) brings us tips from Nicole Morgan at Whole Blossoms to help you care for your fresh wedding flowers!

  • -  Anemones are well known for appearing dehydrated soon after harvest; if you purchase your flowers from a wholesaler, trim at the bottom as soon as possible to help unclog any blocked stems. Cut stems under a running faucet and at an angle to draw water up through the stem and provide for a greater drinking area.
  • -  Add a few packets of floral preservative to your water to help your flowers bloom if closed (table sugar can also be used as a substitute if flower food is unavailable); the general rule is to use 1 tablespoon for floral preservative or sugar for every quart of water. A few drops of lemon juice can also be added to your water to act as a natural disinfectant to help ward off bacteria.
  • -  Store blooms in a cool room. 48 hours before your wedding, consider leaving your anemones in a warm room or sunlight for a few hours to help open any closed blooms. Any blooms that are already left open can be left in a cool room away from sunlight. Your water should be changed out every other day to help promote vase life.
  • -  On the day prior to your wedding, choose your best looking anemones to create your bouquet. As a tip, order extra stems up-front to afford you the luxury of picking your most flawless looking flowers. With bouquet created, use a tall glass or vase to keep your bouquet hydrated until the day of your wedding. A cooler can also be used at this stage to help preserve your bouquet until the following day.

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Wedding Invitations Wording

While preparing to invite family and friends to your big day, proper etiquette notes that the correct wedding invitation wording must be used. There are customary elements to the typical wedding invitation: the host line, request line, bride and groom line, date and time line, reception line, and RSVP line.

That said, Jerome Brownstein, engraving consultant at Ross-Cook Engraving in NYC notes, “The trend is that you do whatever makes good etiquette sense and makes you feel good.” So, even though every wedding invitation should have the above listed lines, they can be worded and arranged in countless ways to reflect the style of your occasion!

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If looking to stay traditional and formal, use both courtesy lines (Mr., Mrs., etc.) and middle names; when using titles other than Mr. and Mrs., spell them out completely, such as: Doctor and Mrs. Johnson or Doctor Anna Marie Smith and Mr. Joseph Timothy Smith.

For wedding invitations a little less formal, omit courtesy titles and middles names and list the first names of all married women. This format can help avoid potential awkwardness, as in the case of a deceased parent.

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Two of the more traditional phrases help to indicate if your wedding ceremony will be held in a house of worship or not. At a place of worship, use the invitation wording: ‘Request the honor of your presence,’ where informal ceremonies use the wording: ‘Would be delighted by your presence at the marriage of their children’.

It’s traditional not to include street addresses for houses of worship or well-known locations, but this is becoming more and more less common. If you do plan to include a street address, zip codes are not needed.

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As the bride and groom are the stars of the wedding invitation, their names are to be set apart on separate lines. The preposition linking them goes on its own line: traditional American formatting uses the word ‘to’ while some Jewish formats use the word ‘and’.

Don’t worry about marking the time as a.m. or p.m. unless the wedding will be held between the hours of 8-10 in the morning or evening. The year is traditionally omitted as well, but is sometimes included for the keepsake value alone.

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More contemporary wedding invitations can showcase the RSVP line on the in the lower left-hand corner and can include the wedding website, or mailing address, phone number, or email address to respond to. Traditionally, however, RSVP cards are sent out with a fill-in-the-blank version providing the first letter of Mr. or Mrs. for guests to complete and mail in.

Not planning to include a full meal? Use phrasing like “afterwards for cocktails” instead of the classic “at the reception” as a courtesy to your guests. To stress the importance of the style of dress your family and friends choose for your big day – black tie or casual attire, for instance – place that information in the lower right corner or on a separate reception card.

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As always, the only true “firm” wedding invitation rule is to never list your registry information anywhere – even on a separate insert! Come back later this week for our discussion about how to list names on your wedding invitations; from inviting a Colonel in the military to a noting that a set of divorced parents are hosting the ceremony together.

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Tips For Hosting An Intimate Wedding

Even with home values going up and unemployment rates going down, for many brides, the recent economic chaos has made money a touch tighter than usual…this doesn’t mean, however, that your wedding ceremony needs to be put on hold – instead, look into hosting an intimate wedding! Tough economy or not, people still fall in love, men still propose, and women still dream about their day!

Limited budgets may make your ceremony smaller than your wild 500-guests-in-a-cathedral-chapel dreams, but take it as an opportunity to be more creative with your planning! Instead of inviting 200 people, talk with your groom and invite twenty cherished guests; a smaller number of wedding guests who are truly important to you makes intimate weddings feel that much more special.

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Where to get married is always a big question in your wedding planning, and for smaller, intimate weddings – it can be an even greater challenge. If the space is too large – your small wedding party may look overwhelmed by their grandiose surroundings…but if it’s too small, you and your guests may feel cramped. How’s a soon-to-be Mrs. to solve this problem?

Luckily, there is an incredible online resource via Intimate Weddings. At Intimate Weddings you’ll find listings for intimate venues thorough out the United States and beautiful wedding inspiration specific to intimate weddings.

Check out the below inspiration showcasing a few of the featured venues on Intimate Weddings!

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Night Wedding Photos

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Wedding Cake Cutting Songs

There will be many sweet moments during your wedding ceremony and reception, darling bride-to-be, from seeing your groom smile as you walk down the altar to sharing your heartfelt vows, but we all know that the sweetest moment in every wedding is the cake cutting…and tasting!

Play up the sweet theme with ‘Ice Cream’ by Sarah McLachlan, have a little fun with any song by Cake (har har), or opt for a more traditional feel with ‘Everlasting Love’ by Natalie Cole!

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Chat with your handsome fella and decide whether your cake cutting will be properly (read: cleanly) sliced – or if he has plans to swipe your face with a dab of icing! The music chosen to play during your cake cutting tells as much about the your personality as the wedding cake flavor!

Worried about your groom smooshing that delicious slice of wedding cake into your perfectly-made face? This topic is definitely a controversial one…some brides find it to be completely disrespectful, other brides think the first set of brides need to loosen up, and a third contingent are simply concerned about the stains that could be left on a very expensive dress…join in the conversation here!

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Big Island Hawaii Honeymoon Giveaway Winners!

WedAlert has been giving away free honeymoons for over 15 years, and this month, partnered with Ask About Honeymoons, Hapuna Beach Prince Hotel Hawaii, and Prince Hotel Waikiki, WedAlert surprised Nikki and Kevin of Pennsylvania with a 5 night stay in a premium ocean-view room in Big Island, Hawaii!


Victor Hugo once said, “The power of a glance has been so much abused in love stories, that it has come to be disbelieved in. Few people dare now to say that two beings have fallen in love because they have looked at each other. Yet it is in this way that love begins, and in this way only.” Meeting (officially) in August 2012 and becoming engaged in December of the same year, the love between Nikki and Kevin is powerfully evident! As Nikki noted in their wedding website, “While most people remember 12/21/12 as the day that the world was supposed to end, I will forever remember it as the day my life was just beginning.”

The WedAlert family joins in with all those reading this post in wishing Nikki and Kevin the very best on their big day, in their lives together, and on their Big Island honeymoon!

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Cheesecake Wedding Cakes

Maybe you’re like me, soon-to-be Mrs., and a cheesecake wedding cake wasn’t your first thought when considering different cake designs to bring to your baker’s attention…but don’t shy away too quickly! Wedding cakes come in many shapes, sizes, and flavors, and when deciding what kind of cake to design – you need to first evaluate its purpose. Is it your primary decoration for your reception? If so, bigger is better! If, however, your plan is to have the most delicious and memorable wedding cake your guests have ever tasted – look into gorgeous cheesecake wedding cakes!

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Cheesecake wedding cakes don’t have to be the single-layer of deliciousness we know from Momma’s kitchen! There are just as many decorative options as you can get with a regular flour cake, but there’s an added bonus, bride-to-be: it’s cheesecake! You can have your baker stack your cheesecake wedding cake, purchase a multi-tiered cake stand to show off the individual layers, or read up on making each layer a different flavor!

Cheesecake wedding cakes also lend themselves perfectly to smaller, individually-sized cakes. Whether baked in a canning jar and served at an outdoor summer wedding or topped with caramel and confectionery sugar for a winter ceremony, this is an idea that can’t go wrong!

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Rustic Wedding Invitations

Rustic wedding invitations can have a modern feel with laser-cut trees, a vintage look with dried flowers and burlap, and can easily showcase the latest wedding trends, like birdcages and touches of lace! Whether your wedding venue is located on a lakefront, a mountainside, or your parent’s backyard, your rustic wedding invitations will be a perfect clue to your guests to not break out the ball gowns and tuxedos!

Rustic Wedding Invitations credit to Laser Creative

The classic rustic ceremony is set at a country estate or in a barn, a setting that can accommodate any season and bring a ‘green’ simplicity to your wedding day; for a barnyard country-themed wedding, look into wedding invitations made with 100% recycled cardstock or woodgrain print. A popular wedding trend that is carrying over into wedding invitations is the addition of succulents; featured in bridal bouquets, wedding cakes, and groomsmen boutonnieres, a show of succulents will quickly tell your family and friends that your wedding will be beautifully eco-friendly!

Are you planning a whimsical wedding in the countryside? Add a woodland charm into your wedding invitations with beautiful ferns and forest animals, like hand-painted deer and owls, or make a large oak tree the focal point of your invitation and carve your initials into the base alongside your grooms to evoke a Southern romance. If you’ll be saying “I do” outdoors, give your rustic wedding invitation a pop of scenery with a natural coloring, tall country grass, or vibrant sunflowers with their heads tilted towards the sun.

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Heart Carved into Tree Wedding Invitation

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Top 5 Wedding Songs To Add To Your No-Play Lists

We’ve spoken about the best wedding songs for everything from your bridemaid’s dance to your groom’s first dance with his Mom, but there’s a surprising amount of polls and posts out there on the Internets dedicated to songs that a bride and groom should, apparently, never ever request to be played at their reception…so let’s review what are said to be the top 5 weddings songs to add to your no-play list!

My country-loving soul understands the desire to play this crooning tune…it’s fun to dance to and even more fun to sing along to, but the lyrics, outlining the pain of a cowboy wedding crasher, weren’t made for a celebration!

The song is beautiful, don’t get me wrong, but can’t you already hear the sinking relationSHIP jokes? Titanic overtook this songs years ago, brides…save it for singing into your hairbrush at home!

You either love or hate opera, there’s really no in between. From cutting time to amplify the impact to tempo changes to build suspense, this song is breathtaking and perfect matched for dancing. But beware, bride-to-be! Translated, those lyrics are saying, ‘Anyone who trusts her is always wretched; he who opens his heart to her is lacking in caution.” Eesh…

Bride-to-be, no matter how much you love Top Gun – put on a pair of headphones, close your eyes, listen to the lyrics…and find another song!

This classic made it onto nearly every online post I reviewed! It’s beautifully sweet outside of a wedding event – but any song that refers to a newlywed bride as a tramp and bridesmaids as ‘broads’ probably isn’t the best choice…

Looking for more wedding ceremony songs? Head over to WedAlert’s wedding song directory! Follow my Pinterest and WedAlert’s Pinterest for wedding ideas ranging from how to outdoor reception decor to wedding invitation etiquette and then share what songs you’re adding onto your no-play list in the comments below!

Wedding Flower Centerpieces credit to Bellegente

Wedding Flower Centerpieces

The full bloom of summer is given way to the beauty of fall,  but you can still take inspiration from Mother Nature for your wedding flower centerpieces! Your guests will enter the reception hall looking to continue the celebration with you and your groom, and their first view of the party to come will be your breathtaking centerpieces! Incorporate lace, brooches, or beading for a vintage look, or slices or wood and handkerchiefs for a country chic feel.

Summer Wedding Flowers

Underwater wedding flower centerpieces are elegant and surprisingly inexpensive, the only exception being blooms with paper-thin petals or flowers with a high pollen count – which can make the water appear cloudy. Hydrangeas, tulips, cherry blossom branches, and lilies are just a few choices that look beautiful when submerged.

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If you plan to make your own underwater wedding flower centerpieces, you’ll need to purchase stainless steel washers (fishing sinkers!) to help keep your blooms submerged, fishing line to tie the flowers to the weights, and floral tape to bind your flowers together. You may find that some branches or flowers won’t require a weight to stay underwater, but – as with many DIY projects – it’ll take a bit of trial and error! Hold fast to your patience and let your creative juices flow while planning how you would like your flowers to rest once submerged and add decorative rocks,  shells, or sand to help hide any necessary weights.

Add water slowly so as to not unrest your carefully planned floral design and top with floating votive candles for an elegant evening glow!




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